"I don't blame you. On any of those counts."

"But...there is nothing you could do, or have done to change the outcome of the situation. Don't allow it to eat away at you too much."

Giving emotional advice is not Brennan's forte. And it shows. But she hope that Jim will take it with the good intent that it comes with.

And it's possible that she's thinking of another situation in which those words could apply.